More than 70% of women think they are ugly and 50% of women think they are fat. Women, who think they are fat but are actually of normal weight, have a lower self-confidence in life than those who are obese but believe they are of normal weight. I don’t know what they expect to be, but the truth is they are good looking anyway. They may think that their real weight is not the same as they expect it should be.
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More than 70% of women think they are ugly and 50% of women think they are fat. Women, who think they are fat but are actually of normal weight, have a lower self-confidence in life than those who are obese but believe they are of normal weight. I don’t know what they expect to be, but the truth is they are good looking anyway. They may think that their real weight is not the same as they expect it should be.
On the other hand, the male thinking is totally different in
this case. Most men, I think, have a very high self esteem. I can only think of
a couple men I met who have lack of confidence in themselves. Where as a woman,
we tend to be always either self-conscious or have a low self esteem in some
way, shape, or form. Sure, there are women who think that they are hot. But
most of the time, they lack confidence somewhere.
I bet if you ask guys about how they rate themselves on a
scale of 1 to 10, they would rate themselves closer to 10. Where if you ask
women, they would probably rate themselves lower and then pick out what they don’t
like about themselves.
Expectation is not reality. You might reach on it someday, somehow.
But remember; be confident in whatever your reality is. It may never meet your expectation.
Just be happy with your looks. Don’t complain about your lacking. Because your
reality could be worse than what you are.
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